Thursday, July 26, 2012

Being filled with gratitude


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“..  from the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks” (Lk 6:45) and for the whole month of June, I was absent from blogging because my heart, mind and spirit were full of gratitude.  I continue to count the blessings and be constantly grateful that from time to time, I empty myself to be filled again to the brim.

Last May 12, I received The Magic by Rhonda Byrne with the hand-written dedication, “Happy 57th birthday! Thank you for everything and sorry for the times that make me seem ungrateful and undeserving for your love but one thing is true, I love you, Tatay!” from our youngest and only son, Francis John.  It was amazing, astonishing and magically touching to receive that book with his short but meaningful message.

I accepted his birthday gift with much appreciation and admiration for his emotional and spiritual maturity.  When he was still a little kid, I opened a large gift.  The head of a dust pan was surprising.  Most likely because he observed me to be sweeping the grounds daily as an exercise and hobby that he got the idea of buying me one.  Lately, observing that I am reading and writing, he has properly discerned what to give me as a first year college student enrolled in entrepreneurship.

I applied the concepts and insights from the book with our farm workers.  The copra processing operation commenced June 8 and lasted for 2 weeks that started with our usual prayer meeting.  It was well-attended.  I reminded them to be always thankful.  I awakened them that “whenever one has gratitude, he will be given more and will have abundance”.  This is specified in the Parable of the Talents (Mt 25:14-30).  The poor gets poorer most likely because he is ungrateful and takes for granted the little blessings he receives daily.  Anyway, the announcement of the increase in the rate of the cost of their labor was an answered prayer petitioned for 2 years.  Our prayer then centered on thanksgiving and we consistently asked for protection especially for the coconut climbers.  We ended our prayer meeting with much joy and thanksgiving with our expectation for an abundant harvest.

Unexpectedly, a few hours later when all of them were busy with their respective assignments, I met an accident.  The YANMAR (YM 2210) tractor with trailer I was driving uncontrollably crashed and landed on its right side after trekking a steep and slippery slope when I turned left to avoid a relatively deep gully. In a matter of seconds, nearby workers rushed to rescue me even those on top of tall coconut trees quickly responded.  They were amazed to see me motionless still seated and calmly holding the steering wheel.  One of them commented that it is quite different when we are prayerful.  It was a simple demonstration of the protective Hands of God when we always call on Him for His blessings and protection. Thank You, Lord!

Who could refuse the sincere invitation of the Milan couple to the celebration of their ruby wedding anniversary? My swelling right leg (not related to the accident) was a sufficient alibi not to go but God cured me to spend the weekend with my family.  The 3 days (June 30 – July 2)  spirit-filled vacation provided us the opportunity for a reunion and brief interaction with colleagues and past friends in Baybay City, Leyte and the Visayas State University (VSU) where Judy and I were employed, started our family until our retirement in the early 90’s. 
  
I gratefully acknowledge the warm welcome, bigheartedness and openhandedness of Dr. & Mrs. Jimmy Rosillo and Dr. & Mrs. Sulpicio Bantugan.

Sir Jimmy, Ma’am Linda and Albert Rosillo, thank you very much!  The sumptuous breakfast emotionally blessed by Sir Jimmy, our reminiscence of memorable events and his act of readily lending his Mitsubishi Lancer for our mobility in the campus and neighboring barangays are well-noted and engraved in our hearts.

Bro. Piciong, Sis. Arcie and Allan Bantugan, thank you very much!  You have given us importance by preparing a healthy lunch and sharing your time with us. Being requested to lead the blessing of the food, I called to mind the “food chain” until we connect ourselves in thanksgiving to the Greatest Provider for His blessings and outpouring abundance.

In the afternoon of the scheduled wedding ceremonies, it was heavily raining.  Unpredictably, in fact, I was taken aback when the high caliber post-harvest plant physiologist, Dr. Emma Data fetched us.  I readily offered to drive her deluxe personal service car.  She agreed finding out later that she is still experiencing the pain in her right arm when she met a vehicular accident in 2009.  Thanks a lot, Ma’am Emma! ..for your kind gesture.

To: Engr. Florente O. Milan and Dr. Paciencia P. Milan, we cannot thank you enough for the free accommodation at the ViSCA Hostel by the beach at your expense.  We are greatly honored and privileged as witnesses to the renewal of your marriage vows at “halftime”.  After forty (40) years and upon retirement, the occasion is highly significant, Finishing Well with grandeur Life Part I (Bob Buford, Is there Something More?).

The wedding ceremonies at the Franciscan College of the Immaculate Conception (FCIC) Chapel, Baybay City brought me back in time when I graduated high school as a working student and Dr. Pacing Milan was one of our teachers.  The chapel was not erected yet.  Striking was the inscription at the right side of the altar, “Read and live the Bible”.  My expanded life slogan is, “Read, write, believe and live”.

The wedding reception at the gymnasium of the Visayas State University (VSU) was grandest. It was well-attended by political leaders of the local government units (LGUs), retired and active academic and non-academic staff close to the couple including relatives and friends like us.  No less than the Bishop of Maasin who was the main celebrant opened serenades of live music followed by equally talented, singing co-celebrants.  Astonishing was the distribution of seedlings of several tree species for a price by a farmers’ organization spearheaded by Dr. Milan.  I look at it as a gist of the couple’s desire to translate their “success to significance” making a difference as they continue to savor and nurture Life Part II (Bob Buford, Is This Really My Life’s Work?).
 
Upon returning home, I brought with me the trivial issue of eradicating the acasia trees lined-up both sides after the gate guarded by the rain and sun gods upon entering the upper campus.  I learned it from the immediate past university president herself and confirmed by Dr. Jose Bacusmo, the incumbent president.  The daily sweeping of falling leaves is not a convincing reason.  Myth logically, metaphorically and even literally, these grown-up acasia trees (most likely over 2 decades old) provide a deeper and meaningful hindrance to the “Search for Truth” of Malakas and Maganda, VSU’s version of the oblation.  
   
I am grateful to Bonn Aure based at Puerto Rico who is one of my interactive facebook friends for registering me with the Kapihan sa Baybay City.  It is an additional forum along with the Collective ViSCAns [alumni of the Visayas Agricultural College (VAC), Visayas State College of Agriculture (ViSCA), Leyte State University (LSU) and Visayas State University (VSU)] where we can openly share our views and opinions regarding our concerns towards holistic growth and development in our respective immediate environment as a nation and our contribution to global issues. 

Momentarily ending this long list of blessings being applied daily with thanks-living, I quote “to speak gratitude is courteous and pleasant, to enact gratitude is generous and noble, but to live gratitude is to touch Heaven” (Johannes A. Gaertner. 1912-1996. In: The Magic. Rhonda Byrne. p. 241). nmg